Client Comments and Testimonials
 “The Transformation center has been an incredible place of healing for me and my daughter. My daughter, who struggles with eating and self-esteem issues, has blossomed under the love and guidance of their amazing therapists and other instructors. The first moment I waked into the front door I could feel God's love surrounding us and knew this place was a blessing from Him. My daughter, thanks to them is on the amazing journey of healing and becoming the beautiful young woman God has created her to be.” A.G.
“The Transformation program turned my life completely around. Everyone there made a 200% effort to help me get though my hardest times. I am now happier than I have ever been. The intensive program changed my life and I actually miss being there every day.” K.G
I came to Memphis a frustrated, depressed hull of a woman. I believed I was capable of doing and feeling more, but I had no idea how to accomplish that. I was anxious about treatment, “what if it doesn't work, what if I gain weight?” But beneath all the "what if's" there was a soft but compelling voice, “What if it does change you? What if it allows you to become the woman you so desperately desire to be?” It was this voice that made me step outside my comfort zone, face my fears, challenge my past, and push for a brighter tomorrow.
I have feared the adult female form since puberty and have fought against developing into it. I associated this curvy womanliness with discomfort, guilt, shame and pain. I also believed that the adult female figure causes men to abandon- either physically by cheating or divorcing or emotionally by retreating, rejecting and expressing displeasure or lack of interest.
I have a newfound appreciation and acceptance of curves. They are necessary-created by God with the great purpose of procreation in mind. Womanly bodies should be celebrated, not hated or hidden. This self-acceptance and new outlook on the female form is going to be extremely difficult for me, but the whole concept is an exquisite one!
Which brings me to my next surprising discovery. I had no idea how hateful the things I say to myself all day long sounded until I said them aloud. No wonder I am sad and feel inadequate- that is exactly how I make myself feel with constant put downs and mean statements. I would not say these things to my worst enemy. Thought stopping and correcting is going to be a vital part of my recovery, but will also be one of the most difficult.
I have maintained a level of reserve and distance to protect myself. This is no way to live - love is, after all, letting go of fear and leaping blindly into the unknown. It is a joyous emotion that when expressed can make you feel ready to burst with feelings. I plan to allow myself to fall head over heels for my husband- without fear!
Most importantly, I think is the fact I realized that even though it will be a long difficult process full of challenges and temporary set backs, I can accept myself, love myself and I deserve to take care of myself and be happy. I am determined to recover; so I know with time, effort, patience, and understanding I can achieve the life I desire and deserve! Thank you, K.
Listen to a local mother who knows.
When our young teenage daughter was diagnosed with an eating disorder, our family was totally unprepared for the intense and stressful journey to recovery we would experience in the coming months. My family and I had a heartfelt desire to bring our daughter back to optimal overall health. It was our utmost priority and we would do whatever was required to make that happen.
At the time (and it is still the case today) Memphis offered limited choices for treatment and we were forced after much research to send her to an out-of-state facility for what turned out to be a lengthy stay.
It was tremendously hard on our family both emotionally and financially, but we were willing to do what was necessary.
We know that every case of eating disorders is different and it is not just young girls who are affected. Sometimes a residential 24-hour treatment facility is necessary. However, we wish that The Transformation Program for Eating Disorders had been available to us when our daughter was diagnosed. In addition to traditional psychological counseling, it offers a wide variety of support services and therapy models in an out-patient program which can help forestall or eliminate the need for residential care.
The staff has a true heart of understanding for the client's needs as they deal with the traumatic mental and emotional roller coaster ride which eating disorders cause. They also know the impact this condition has on the entire family as well.
I realize the dire need of having available the very best services possible to reinforce the hard work my daughter made in her recovery process. I have also learned that the Memphis area has a much greater prevalence of eating disorders and associated conditions than is commonly known.
There are many girls and women and their loved ones who are suffering that could receive immeasurable benefits from the Transformation Program for Eating Disorders. It is my strongest hope that this innovative, professional program grows to be a lighthouse of comfort and a wellspring of tremendous service to our community.
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